Key takeaways

Do not trust a voice or a face on its own. Hang up, call the person back on a number you already have, and agree on a family safe word before you need one.

  • Scammers can clone a voice from a short clip, such as a video posted online, says the FTC.
  • The FBI advises families to agree on a secret word or phrase to verify identity.
  • Any urgent request for gift cards, crypto, wire transfers, or cash is a red flag, no matter who seems to be asking.

If a number or website was involved, check it in the scam directory.

How the scam works

The family emergency scam, sometimes called the grandparent scam, is old. What changed is the voice. Software can now copy how a person sounds from a short recording. The FTC says that clip may come from content posted online, such as a video or voice note.

The call itself is brief and scripted. A voice that sounds like your relative says there has been an accident or an arrest and begs for money. A second voice may take over, posing as a lawyer, police officer, or bail agent, and explain how to pay. Gift cards, wire transfers, cryptocurrency, and cash picked up by a courier are the usual routes.

The same tools work at work. The FBI’s December 2024 alert on generative AI describes live video chats with supposed executives, law enforcement, or other authorities. In May 2025 the FBI also warned that texts and AI voice messages were impersonating senior U.S. officials to build trust and reach personal accounts.

What the numbers show

The FBI’s 2025 Internet Crime Report, released in April 2026, tied more than 22,000 complaints to nearly $893 million in reported losses, according to Help Net Security’s coverage. AARP’s summary says $352 million of that was lost by older adults. Separately, the FTC’s 2025 data put imposter scam losses at about $3.5 billion, the biggest fraud category by report count. The AI figure covers only reports that mention AI, so the true number is likely higher.

Seven warning signs

You may not hear a difference in the voice, so most of these signs are about what the caller wants.

  1. A panicked call from a relative who needs money right now. The caller says they were in a crash, were arrested, or are being held. The voice sounds like your grandchild, child, or sibling. The emotion is part of the script. Your reaction is the target.
  2. A request for secrecy. You are told not to tell mom, not to call anyone, or not to hang up. The reason is simple: a second phone call would end the scam.
  3. A new or unknown number, or a blocked one. The caller may say they lost their phone or are calling from a lawyer’s or police station’s line. Caller ID can also be faked, so a familiar number is not proof either.
  4. Payment by wire, cryptocurrency, gift card, or cash courier. The FTC says requests to wire money, send crypto, or buy gift cards and read out the numbers could be signs of a scam. A “bail bondsman” or “lawyer” who comes to the door for cash is a variant.
  5. A voice that is almost right. The FBI advises listening for tone and word choice that feel slightly off. In a live emergency you will probably not notice. This is why verification matters more than listening.
  6. A video call with glitches. The FBI lists distorted hands or teeth, odd shadows, unnatural movement, and lag as signs of AI video. A good deepfake may show none of them, so a clean video is not proof either.
  7. An unusual order from a boss or executive. A voice message or video call from the “CEO” or “CFO” asks for an urgent wire, gift cards, or a change in payment details, and says to keep it quiet. The FBI says criminals use AI video chats to pose as executives and authorities.

Set up a family safe word

The FBI recommends agreeing on a secret word or phrase with family members to verify identity. Do it at a calm moment, in person or on a call you started yourself.

  • Make it unguessable. Avoid names, birthdays, and anything on social media. A short odd phrase works better than a single common word.
  • Share it only in person or by a trusted call. Do not post it or put it in a group chat.
  • Use it for money. If anyone asks for cash, a transfer, or codes by phone or video, ask for the word first. If they cannot give it, hang up.
  • Include older relatives. They are the most targeted. Role-play a call once so the habit sticks.
  • Back it up with a callback. If the word is forgotten, hang up and call the person on the number you have saved.

Also limit what scammers can copy. The FBI suggests keeping your photos, voice, and social media private and limiting followers to people you know.

What real people and organizations do

A relative in real trouble will accept a callback, and will not mind that you check. A genuine police station does not demand gift cards or crypto.

A real boss or supplier will confirm a payment change through a second channel and the company’s normal approval process. They will not ask you to hide a large transfer.

If you already sent money

Call your bank or payment provider immediately and ask to stop or recall the transfer. For gift cards, call the issuer with the numbers. For crypto, tell the exchange or ATM operator, though recovery is harder. Then tell the real relative, so they can warn others and secure their accounts.

Report to the FBI at ic3.gov, with the phone number, amounts, wallet or account details, and any recordings. Also report to ReportFraud.ftc.gov. Victims aged 60 or older can call the DOJ Elder Justice Hotline at 1-833-FRAUD-11 (833-372-8311), per the FBI.

Expect more contact. Scammers sometimes follow up posing as law enforcement or recovery agents. The FBI warned in July 2026 that impersonators, including deepfake videos of senior FBI leaders, use fake IC3 sites and approach past victims. The alert says IC3 does not directly contact people by phone or email and never asks for payment to recover lost funds. See recovery scams, and urgent payment requests for how to pause any demand for money. Fake officials who threaten arrest are covered in government impersonation scams, and fake support calls in tech support scams.

More help from official sources

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Frequently asked questions

Can scammers really clone a voice from a short clip?

Yes. According to the FTC, scammers can use AI to clone a relative’s voice from a short audio clip, which may come from content posted online. The FBI says criminals use cloned voices to imitate a relative in a fake emergency and to try to access bank accounts.

How do I know if a call from my grandchild is real?

Hang up and call them back on the number you already have for them. If they do not answer, call another family member or a friend. The FTC’s advice is to not trust the voice alone. A real relative in trouble will understand.

What is a family safe word and how do I choose one?

It is a secret word or phrase that family members agree on to prove who they are. The FBI recommends agreeing on one. Pick something that is not findable online, so not a pet’s name or a street, and tell it only to people you trust. Use it for any emergency request for money.

Can a deepfake video call impersonate my boss?

Yes. The FBI says criminals use AI-generated video to stage live video chats with supposed executives, law enforcement, or other authorities. For any payment request, confirm through a separate channel, such as a known phone number, and follow your company’s approval process.

How common are AI scams?

The FBI’s 2025 Internet Crime Report linked more than 22,000 complaints to nearly $893 million in losses involving AI, as reported by Help Net Security. AARP’s summary says about $352 million of that was reported by older adults. These are only the cases that were reported.

I sent money after a voice call. What now?

Call your bank or the payment provider right away and ask to stop or reverse the transfer. Report it at ic3.gov and ReportFraud.ftc.gov with the phone number, amounts, and any messages. Anyone who is 60 or older can call the DOJ Elder Justice Hotline at 1-833-372-8311.